
This week my daughter graduates from high school. I've spent a few hours putting her slide show together, which is no easy feat for a non tech guy. Besides shedding a few tears, which is no surprise to those who know me, it's also been a great time to remember... and to reflect.
I fully realize God intends for us as parents to raise our children so that they will grow, and go. We do not consider it a normal or healthy thing when grown children are still living at home. However the "change" that occompanies this growth is not necessarily easy. It's only natural and right to want to spend time with those you love and cherish. I enjoy being around my kids. They're great kids! Not perfect, but then I'm not a perfect parent either.
As I've worked on the slide show, here are a couple thoughts regarding this milestone in our lives:
1.
Life is a process. The slides remnd me of her growth. From baby to little girl. Growing thru elementary years. Then making the cheer squad and all the hard work and anxiousness of tryouts. Learning to drive. Boys. Varisty tryouts. Working through relationship hassles. All the stuff that comes with growing up. And graduation is simply another step in the process. Nothing is really ever final is it??? Until Jesus comes... we're all a work in process.
2. Lots of pictures with friends, both past and present.
This reminds me that much of life is lived in relationships with others. It starts in the home, but then moves outside the home to friends of the parents, to friends at school, to best friends, crushes, dates and if God leads a future husband and then maybe children of her own. But through it all, life is meant to be lived with others. And all of that God uses to teach us truth about ourselves, about love, forgiveness, acceptance, letting go, moving forward.
3rd thought-
there are some relationships in life that are meant to be permanent! The love of Jesus towards us is forever. The commitment and love of family is meant to last a lifetime. Parents, our kids should always have our love, acceptance and compassion. That's the way God treats us. Hopefully you've come to know this truth in your live as well.
But you are a forgiving God, gracious adn compassionate, slow to anger & abounding in love. Nehemiah 9:17